Back when my oldest daughter was younger, I would often ask her to let me do my workout before she comes to chat, or hang out with me (how bad is that!?). I was so "into my workouts" that I wanted privacy and no distractions. To a point, I'm still like that. However, now with my little one (a little over two and a half years old) I can't help but feel guilty about my past attitude.
I got back into my training steady after the holidays, and my little one wanted to come down to my "gym" with me at home. I let her, and it couldn't have been a better move. Long story short, I'm no longer the "stupid attitude" parent who wants to work out on his own; I'm now the "role-model" Dad who wants to teach his kids that fitness and activity is good for them, and fun too.
There is no better motivation than hearing your little one be so excited when you ask, "are you ready to go exercise?" and she replies, "YES!" She'll play for a while during the workouts, and will also ask to have a turn. For example, I just finished a set of pushups and of course she was watching. She said, "my turn daddy" and got onto the mat and did the cutest version of a pushup I had ever seen. If that's not motivation I don't know what is.
Also now, my oldest daughter will come down to the workout room at home, and will ask questions about a particular exercise I'm doing etc... I got lucky. Even though I never really allowed her to watch or see what working out was like (and to ask questions), she's becoming more and more curious about what I do.
The moral of my story is: don't be stubborn - let kids watch, ask questions and learn from the best role models in their life (their family).
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